April 25, 2008
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INFJ - THE PROTECTOR (THE COUNSELOR)
BRIEF OVERVIEW INFJs are intuitive, caring, quiet and peace-loving: deep and complex
people who may seem equally at home dealing with the personal and
analytical spheres of life. The interior world of vision and ideas is
this type's most comfortable domain, but some degree of human
connection is essential for the INFJ's happiness; a potential conflict
for this type. Articulate, empathetic and idealistic, INFJs often say
they just know things, they know them directly, and they may not be
able to tell you how or why! INFJs seem to be able to feel others'
feelings vicariously and sense the good and evil in situations: an
almost psychic ability which may be an asset in many "people
professions." Spiritual, sensitive and committed, INFJs enjoy being of
service to others. Once this type's goals are set and the mind is made
up, no argument based solely on reason and practicality is likely to
divert the passionate INFJ from a mission or chosen project. Whether
this characteristic manifests itself as admirable tenacity or
bull-headed stubbornness may determine the individual INFJ's potential
for life success.EXPLANATION BASED ON THE RESEARCH OF CARL JUNG, KATHARINE C. BRIGGS AND ISABEL BRIGGS MYERS INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals.
Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and
possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ
Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.INFJs place great importance on havings things orderly and systematic
in their outer world. They put a lot of energy into identifying the
best system for getting things done, and constantly define and
re-define the priorities in their lives. On the other hand, INFJs
operate within themselves on an intuitive basis which is entirely
spontaneous. They know things intuitively, without being able to
pinpoint why, and without detailed knowledge of the subject at hand.
They are usually right, and they usually know it. Consequently, INFJs
put a tremendous amount of faith into their instincts and intuitions.
This is something of a conflict between the inner and outer worlds, and
may result in the INFJ not being as organized as other Judging types
tend to be. Or we may see some signs of disarray in an otherwise
orderly tendency, such as a consistently messy desk.INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations. They get
"feelings" about things and intuitively understand them. As an extreme
example, some INFJs report experiences of a psychic nature, such as
getting strong feelings about there being a problem with a loved one,
and discovering later that they were in a car accident. This is the
sort of thing that other types may scorn and scoff at, and the INFJ
themself does not really understand their intuition at a level which
can be verbalized. Consequently, most INFJs are protective of their
inner selves, sharing only what they choose to share when they choose
to share it. They are deep, complex individuals, who are quite private
and typically difficult to understand. INFJs hold back part of
themselves, and can be secretive.But the INFJ is as genuinely warm as they are complex. INFJs hold a
special place in the heart of people who they are close to, who are
able to see their special gifts and depth of caring. INFJs are
concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting
anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it
very well. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the
normally peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger. They
may tend to internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience
health problems when under a lot of stress.Because the INFJ has such strong intuitive capabilities, they trust
their own instincts above all else. This may result in an INFJ
stubborness and tendency to ignore other people's opinions. They
believe that they're right. On the other hand, INFJ is a perfectionist
who doubts that they are living up to their full potential. INFJs are
rarely at complete peace with themselves - there's always something
else they should be doing to improve themselves and the world around
them. They believe in constant growth, and don't often take time to
revel in their accomplishments. They have strong value systems, and
need to live their lives in accordance with what they feel is right. In
deference to the Feeling aspect of their personalities, INFJs are in
some ways gentle and easy going. Conversely, they have very high
expectations of themselves, and frequently of their families. They
don't believe in compromising their ideals.INFJ is a natural nurturer; patient, devoted and protective. They make
loving parents and usually have strong bonds with their offspring. They
have high expectations of their children, and push them to be the best
that they can be. This can sometimes manifest itself in the INFJ being
hard-nosed and stubborn. But generally, children of an INFJ get devoted
and sincere parental guidance, combined with deep caring.In the workplace, the INFJ usually shows up in areas where they can be
creative and somewhat independent. They have a natural affinity for
art, and many excel in the sciences, where they make use of their
intuition. INFJs can also be found in service-oriented professions.
They are not good at dealing with minutia or very detailed tasks. The
INFJ will either avoid such things, or else go to the other extreme and
become enveloped in the details to the extent that they can no longer
see the big picture. An INFJ who has gone the route of becoming
meticulous about details may be highly critical of other individuals
who are not.The INFJ individual is gifted in ways that other types are not. Life is
not necessarily easy for the INFJ, but they are capable of great depth
of feeling and personal achievement.EXPLANATION BY JOE BUTT Beneath the quiet exterior, INFJs hold deep
convictions about the weightier matters of life. Those who are
activists -- INFJs gravitate toward such a role -- are there for the
cause, not for personal glory or political power.INFJs are champions of the oppressed and downtrodden. They often are
found in the wake of an emergency, rescuing those who are in acute
distress. INFJs may fantasize about getting revenge on those who
victimize the defenseless. The concept of 'poetic justice' is appealing
to the INFJ."There's something rotten in Denmark." Accurately suspicious about
others' motives, INFJs are not easily led. These are the people that
you can rarely fool any of the time. Though affable and sympathetic to
most, INFJs are selective about their friends. Such a friendship is a
symbiotic bond that transcends mere words.INFJs have a knack for fluency in language and facility in
communication. In addition, nonverbal sensitivity enables the INFJ to
know and be known by others intimately.Writing, counseling, public service and even politics are areas where INFJs frequently find their niche.
INFJ Career Matches:
Actor, Alternative Medicine, Artist, Child Care Worker, Child Development, Chiropractor, Church Worker, Clergy, Computer Programmer, Computer Specialist, Consultant, Dentist, Designer, Doctor, Educational, Consultant, Entrepreneur, Human Resources, Lawyer/Attorney, Librarian, Marketer, Missionary, Musician, Photographer, Psychiatrist, Psychologist/Counselor, Sales Representative, Scientist, Social Worker, Systems Analyst, Teacher/Professor, Trainer, Writer.
Famous INFJ's:
Nathan, prophet of Israel
Aristophanes
Chaucer
Goethe
Robert Burns, Scottish poet
U.S. Presidents:
Martin Van Buren
James Earl "Jimmy" Carter
Nathaniel Hawthorne
Fanny Crosby
Mother Teresa
Fred McMurray
Shirley Temple
Martin Luther King, Jr.
James Reston, reporter
Shirley McClain
Michael Landon
Tom Selleck
Oprah Winfrey
Paul Stookey (PP&M)
Angela Lansbury
U. S. Senator Carol Moseley-Braun
Carrie Fisher
Calista Flockhart
Alice Cooper
Gates McFadden
Mischa Barton
Joe Pantoliano
Neve Campbell
Ralph Fiennes
Talisa Soto
Jamie Foxx
John Katz
Mel Gibson
Richard Gere
Adam Sandler
Anthony Kiedis
Garry TrudeauFictional INFJ's:
Tinman - The Wizard of Oz
Luke Skywalker - Star Wars
Albus Dumbledore- Harry Potter
Amelie Poulain - Amelie
Dr. Yuri Zhivago - Doctor Zhivago
Joe Hackett - Wings
Comments (34)
me, too!
Cool! I'm INTJ.
I must be an idiot: What is an "INFJ"?
Where do we take said test? Lets get everyone to do it!:ssalien:
@spothedog - Meyers-Briggs Type Indicator.@Allen_Oz - I took my Meyers-Briggs Type Indicator test in college, that "professionally" done test costs money and you can find it online... You can, however, take pretty much the same test for free. It's not as long as the costly one... but I believe it actually gives more accurate results.Meyers-Briggs Personality Test
@iLyd - @la_faerie_joyeuse - It is a small world after all! You do know that us INFJ's make up only 1% of the population?... yeah, we're special :ssgoofywink:
@Far_Skies - very cool! I actually bounce back and forth from ENFJ and INFJ--- depending on how social I'm feeling that day :ssgrin:
@iLyd - Here is the professional deciding question to determine whether you are an introvert or an extrovert. Does socializing with groups of people energize you or drain you, do you have to take some "alone" time to recover afterwards?
Add Alias X Undercover to your list of famous INFJ's
Wow, see, it really depends! How big is the group? Umm... is alcohol involved? lolI go back and forth between social and anti social. In high school I definitely spent a lot of lunch periods working on the school paper alone in an empty room. Then again, I love my "going out" friends and like to meet up on Thursdays downtown for $1 martinis. But... I would rather be an "escapist" and read or watch a movie on a lazy weekend afternoon.See? I'm socially bipolar. Ack!
That's quite a list of infj's. I'm one of the lowly intp's myself.
Hmm...I may have to take this test later. That's pretty interesting.Hey, you've got the same result as ALBUS DUMBLEDORE! Shazam!
I took this back in november of '06 then retook it a few weeks ago... the first time I was infp... but now I get infj I even took it again to be sure... lol... I jus talked about this in a blog
@AliasUndercover - No kidding! Hahah pure unadulterated awesomeness. LOL You get a gold star! :ssstar:
I find the temperament test that classifies a person as melancholy, sanguine, choleric, or phlegmatic (and of course most people are some combination of two or more types) to be somewhat more useful... or at least it's easier to remember what the types ARE. So what if you're a person who is energized by socializing with groups of people, but then you need some "alone" time to recuperate? You're an ambivert, right?
Another INFJ here...kind of scary how true that is about me...
Just wanted to say I hope all things are well and good! Your fiance shut his site down so I was just hoping everything is ok with you!
I can't possibly read Tom Selleck's name without the Magnum PI music going off in my head. See? There is is again. Damn you and your 80's iconic moustache-wearing celebrities!
you comin over?
I happen to be and INFP go figure lol Sorry I have not been around
I'm an INFP. I don't remember what that means. I was close to INFJ though. I was so happy to meet you in Ohio. Thanks for taking the time for us!
@thankee - It was a pleasure meeting you as well! I hope we will get the chance to do it again sometime. =)
So, Tom Selleck should have played Luke Skywalker? Hmmm, that would have been interesting. I can hear the lines now..."T.J. never told you about Robin Masters.""He told me you killed Robin Masters, Higgins!""No, Magnum.... I am Robin Masters! Now give me the keys to the Ferrari"
gee - maybe if i comment here...
Me? INTP, but that's just between us.
muah, poopyhead -so dang far down on the sub list i ran outta all the good credits--sheesh...
Dominant here. I'm left handed, any statistics on that? It's been decades since I've taken these tests.I found the temperament test left out a sixth sense of the ability to read people to such depth it can be very unpleasant much of the time, the 5 senses are extremely high when going into a building, house, a person etc where something is or was very uncomfortable and or very disagreeable to my nature. I'm not speaking of being psychic or that kind of thing whatsoever!, There's a book called the Highly Sensitive Person of which i think affects only about 6 percent of the population. I have my own experiences that prove it to be true through either research concerning a place that is uninhabited or asking if a particular thing happened upon entering a place I'm familiar with. It's not something i look for by any means, it just happens and is very unexpected. Maybe the surprise of it is what makes it so very unpleasant. I have learned to turn it off to some degree, however the more emotionally attached i am to the place or people in it, it takes on a life of its own. I believe it's to some degree tied in with my gut instincts at times and that everyone has and Mine have never ever have failed me. .
@a_thousandmiles - It sounds like you are an empath, like me! I've been thinking about writing a blog about it, so I won't go into too much depth here... all will be revealed! O.Olol
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